When my transdaughter ‘came out’ at age 6 a gay friend told me to allow everyone their process including myself. It was some of the best advice anyone could have given me. It’s BIG. As big as it gets! My daughter is now 9 and it has been quite a ride. Love will win. I’ve bookmarked your first piece and will go back to read it. Luckily my daughter’s name can go both ways so I don’t have to go through all the B.S. of legally changing her name. This was a piece I wrote over the summer about her coming out and how she’s already inspired people to live their own truths. https://medium.com/swlh/be-how-you-feel-b2ef0daa36c It’s really intense being a parent of a Trans Kiddo! They face a harsher than most.