Was at my Mom's for T-Day and helped her sort a bunch of boxes from over 20 years ago. Lots of "hurt" in her closet. She's gone through losing her first born son (my bro) and divorcing my Dad. She says she can't look at some of the stuff because it makes her too sad. I told her it'll be healthy to have a good cry and get rid of some of the stuff. As we get older we just have more SHIT to deal with! Physical shit and mental shit. Hah.