Number 5 is I like being with a woman who doesn’t want to get married again. 😆 This list doesn’t seem tailored for divorce. Aren’t all these just givens for what we want in a partner? Divorce damages us. Period. Hotness only goes so far. If I’m going to BE with someone I need to know she’s done some work and processing like I have so we can manage our shit that will inevitably come up.