Just crush no action on the co-worker! Crushes are good. I'm happily in love again after divorce and I have all kinds of crushes. Hah! Toss something up on a dating app. It was all new to me too but the apps do allow you to see if you anything in common and see if you are attracted to the woman. Sometimes the ladies (and men) use an old picture or a doctored picture which I find weird.

Keep it real. Have a set time of day to swipe and respond so you don't crash into a parked car swiping or ignore your kid chatting with outsourced guys in India posing as blondes with big tits on Bumble to get guys like us to upgrade to premium. I'd swipe for a few weeks get a few leads and then delete the app like a trip to Ibiza or something like that. Hah.