It’s really hard seeing some of the same behaviors from my Ex that contributed to our failed dynamics, now affect the kids. That’s the hardest part for me. Most of my own stuff I’ve come to a decent place where it’s not poisoning my being anymore. There was one time before I moved out that I thought of hitting her, and it scared the hell out of me. Other than that it was just simple destruction of property I had once loved and improved. CBT saves the day! Kept Chin out of jail. 😆