I mostly agree with this as an older and wiser dude now. I traveled extensively with my ex-wife but I just didn't have the life experience to set boundaries and understand what were reasonable compromises. All the toxic dynamics were on full display when we traveled and in our marriage. I will tell my kids that travel and vacation should be mostly fun and easy with a partner. If going on an adventure and fun trip isn't mostly easy then all the adulting-parenting challenges will most definitely be hard.